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邓金明
玛格利特·杜拉斯对于情欲有着极亲密的感觉。她说在男人和女人之间，是虚幻想象最具有力量的地方。在这个“地方”，她从未曾离开过，她的小说和她的存在没有什么不同。她批评罗兰·巴特冷冰冰的恋人絮语，她认为普鲁斯特不是男性作家。这并不令人奇怪。近世以来，女性文学的主题从未宏大过，但从这些文学中所窥见的，远较男性眼中的世界纯粹直截。女人，作为作家，总是要绕到世界的背后来描写世界。杜拉斯体会到，凡是女人，都具有那种不可能加以测度的强烈性质，一种发自本能的行为。杜拉斯将它归之于沉默。一种男性行为很难纳于无声无息的沉默。在古代，在遥远的过去，千万年以来，默不出声的是女人。所以，文学是属于女人的。
作者：顾止妄 回复日期：2004-12-14 16:34:03
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这是不是有点太决绝了。伍尔芙的文字就明显太絮叨了，女人更容易陷进情欲的棉絮里，再也没有着力点跳出来，思维的广度超越了深度和强度，这是很多女性作家的失败，她们的文字是美丽的，但是我宁愿喜欢残酷的和破坏性的文学。文字不能拒绝表达意义，文字应该是冰冷的，刺人的。就算属于女人，也应该属于那种像冰山一样的女人。
作者：邓金明 回复日期：2004-12-15 22:04:35
文学是属于女人的,不是统计学意义上，而是诗学意义上的。
要讲文学的残酷和破坏，切莫以为是男人的那种力。事实上，中国现代文学史上，表现人性的残酷和破坏，谁也没张爱玲的《金锁记》来得那样强烈。
情欲并不意味着温情，尤其是女性作家的笔下；倒是大多数男性作家往往把女性想象成温软的小动物。
- posted on 12/19/2004
In my writing class, 70% of the members are women. They write well.
Also, recently discovered a few good female writers of English language: Jean Rhys (good morning midnight, wide sargasso), Iris Murdoch(underneath the net, Italian girl, The sea, the sea) and Muriel Spark (The prime of miss Jean Brodie, the comforters, Loitering with Intent, A far Cry from Kensington).
I like Muriel Spark in particular. Will try to trace the places where she was loitering as a school girl) in Edinburgh where I am visiting a a few days time. She is brilliant: cool, witty, satirical, sharp, humourous and economic, and a great story teller without tearful melodramas. Also a pretty woman and luckily she is not vain. her latest work is The finishing School (2004). She was born in 1917. She moved to Italy in 1967 and still lives there.
Women are probabaly more sensitive so they need something more tender and delicate for their minds. Maybe that's why literature is a suitable channel for us to travel.
- posted on 12/20/2004
Women are probabaly more sensitive so they need something more tender and delicate for their minds. Maybe that's why literature is a suitable channel for us to travel.
Women and men are both sensitive but in different departments. Yet women
are much more expressive in terms of emotion and affection, in other
words, women need to express their inner feelings more than men do. One
example is in the clinic where women usually have more complains then
men do. That women are more open to each other in their life circles is
another case.
As for literature though, writing is not the only way women can channel
their feelings, reading can also be a powerful buffer for female
readers'inner self. That's because women are also more sympathetic.
Needless to say, sympathetic is the essense of understanding which
underlines the writer-reader allies.
So, women and literature, it's the human nature.
Probably little bit exaggeration:) - posted on 12/24/2004
Agree with most of what you said. I bet that there are more women than men in this forum because we are more expressive or feel the urge of expressing ourselves more ....and incidentlally the fact that hostess is a real woman also supports your argument.
We pay attention to different things - men more factual driven and women more emotional motivated (or programmed, by the great and mysterious nature!).
Hi someone out there, can you research more on how our minds are working?
- posted on 12/24/2004
Hi Little,
You are with literature? The role and characteristics of woman in
literature may be better illustrated by the phenominon of Feminist
Criticism?
Can you elaborate on that little bit:)?
As for possible gender differences in the minds of man and woman,
the best we can say is that it's still a "unsovled mistery".
Differences can be viewed from several aspects: brain structures,
functionalities, psycho-social reaction patterns. Structure-wise,
not much difference there except that the "connection area" between
the two semi-spheres appears different, in that woman seems have
more connection between the emotional and intelligent spheres. Someone
believe that explains why woman are more emotional even in pure
intelligent tasks, but lots disagree. There are other scientific
findings suggest that the brain centers for emotional memory are
different between woman and man. But more scientists still think
the gender differences in psychological lives we see in daily life
are the function of psycho-social environment, that's nurture, not
nature.
Well, we do know that some man can be as sensitive and feministic
as woman is, and vise verse. We are talking about a general trend
which always embody rich individual differences. So, femininity and
masculinity may well be basic common human characteristics woman and
man possess and display in different propotions instead of an
clear distinction which seperate us into two different species.
But the question still remains: which you prefer? Different biologically or just psychologically. I would put up a related
question for you ladies: which point of view is better fit for
gender equality pursue:)?
little wrote:
Agree with most of what you said. I bet that there are more women than men in this forum because we are more expressive or feel the urge of expressing ourselves more ....and incidentlally the fact that hostess is a real woman also supports your argument.
We pay attention to different things - men more factual driven and women more emotional motivated (or programmed, by the great and mysterious nature!).
Hi someone out there, can you research more on how our minds are working?
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