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  Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT

  sands posted on 11/08/2007
  冬天和夏天有什么相似之处? ZT
  
  来源: 偶灯斯陋 (WXC)
  
  找出相似性—训练孩子的抽象思维能力
  
  你会用这样的问题向孩子提问吗? 比如说: 铅笔和钢笔有什么地方是一样的? 牛奶和水有什么地方是一样的? 苹果和香蕉? 蝴蝶和蜜蜂? 鱼和马? 冬天和夏天? 油画和雕塑? 皱眉和微笑? 生气和高兴? … …
  
  这些怎么会一样呢? 你会问. 明明不一样嘛!
  
  把看似不同的东西摆在一起, 找出相似性来, 需要一定的思维成熟程度. 问一个三岁或四岁的孩子, 猫和老鼠有什么共同点, 她会说猫会追老鼠, 老鼠会跑, 回答了你的问话, 可没有答上你出的题. 问五六岁小孩, 也许他会回答, 猫和老鼠都有眼睛, 或者都有尾巴. 你得等孩子再大一点, 向她提这个问题, 她才可能回答说, 它们都是动物. 或者都是小动物, 都是哺乳动物, 等等.
  
  
  瑞士儿童心理学家皮亚杰提出智力发展四阶段一说, 认为第一阶段婴儿通过感观和动作”思考”, 比如把什么东西抓到手后都要塞嘴里感受”品尝”一下; 第二阶段的学龄前儿童能说会道了, 可思维缺乏逻辑性, 常常自我中心, 不知别人有与己不同的看法, 要到第三阶段儿童才有逻辑思维, 但多是形象逻辑, 很具体, 很实在, 到第四阶段才有抽象思维, 得等到11岁. 老皮同志生后的许多同行们觉得他看问题保守了一点, 许多孩子们11岁前就有了抽象思维能力. 比如不少六七岁小孩收集baseball卡片或 Pokemon cards, 收集邮票等等, 收藏过程中就要用到分类的方法, 等于抽象思维中的排列归纳.
  
  总之, 抽象思维能力比具象思维能力更为成熟. 因而许多智力测试题就包含有找出相似性的问题. 2004年版的那套韦可思乐智力测试题, 就有一组句型为 In what way are A and B alike? 的问题. 那些苹果香蕉, 生气高兴什么的就是其中的A 和 B .
  
  
  家长们不妨试试这个句型, 看你的孩子怎么回答. 老皮若仍在世也许会对训练一说不以为然, 他认为智力发展是个水到渠成的事, 年龄到了, 相应的思维能力就来了. 不过, 尽管皮亚杰相信生物成熟对智力发展的力量, 但他亦不反对注重后天经验对智力开发的重大因素, 所以, 不妨问一问孩子, 苹果和香蕉有什么共同性. 其实就可以拿我们每天的生活中的经历来举例提问, 比方说, 从我们周围的人群中,表面上看来不同的人有着不同的肤色, 不同的口音, 不同的见解, 可内心深处, deep down, we are the same--我们都是 human beings . 认识到这个共同点, 应该有助于解决冲突, 营造一个平和的生存环境, 让孩子们有一个和平的理想世界.
  
  
  
  

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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #1 浠よ儭鍐� posted on 11/08/2007
  
  
  
  Good one. I buy it.
  
  My son is extremely good at telling difference, but I didn't hear too much he talking about the similarities.
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #2 rzp posted on 11/08/2007
  
  
  This is interesting. I tried it on my 10 years old. (Even though she is too old for this, I was curious to see what she would answer, becasue she is not good in abstract thinking.)
  
  Q: What is in common between a cow and a TV?
  A: (right away) They both make big sound.
  
  (her turn to ask me)
  Q: What is the difference between water and beverage?
  (she thinks telling difference is easier, and she is giving me easy questions first.)
  A: Water has no taste, beverage has good taste.
  
  Q: What is the same between a car and a star?
  A: (laughed, apparently she liked the game) They rhyme, and they both shine. (a new car, like the one we test-drove......)
  
  (her question to me)
  Q: What is the other word for aroma?
  (Still, she laughed, and enjoyed playing by her term.)
  A: A pleasant smell?
  
  Q: What is in common between laughing and a plate?
  A: (she laughed so hard and could not stop for a while, then she said,) Laughing is loud, and when you break a plate, it is loud too.
  
  (finally, her turn of the same question for me)
  Q: What is in common between sea and shore?
  A: They meet at the same place. No sea, no shore,blah blah blah,...
  (Then she said, so what is the name of the place, a building, a school, a light house? NO!)
  (I got it) Beach!
  
  
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #3 PETER posted on 11/09/2007
  
  
  SFSFS
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #4 PETER posted on 11/09/2007
  
  
  阿姗 wrote:
  是 rzp MM。
  

  BROTHER RZP AS MONSIEUR RZP
  MEANING IN CHINESE 先生。如：冰心先生。
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #5 qinggang posted on 11/09/2007
  
  
  
  

  PETER wrote:
  两岁的外甥女问我：“DIU-DIU, 洗衣粉的小名是什么?”
  

  叫小白。
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #6 qinggang posted on 11/09/2007
  
  
  
  

  rzp wrote:
  Q: What is in common between a cow and a TV?
  A: (right away) They both make big sound.
  

  hahahahaha.
  i cannot answer such question.too difficult.
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #7 PETER posted on 11/09/2007
  
  
  附：小外甥女的自我介
  I AM COCO. I AM 2.
  I AM IMPOSSIBLE. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPOSSIBLE, AND MOTHER TOO.
  I AM ANGLE AND TOUCHE-ME-NOT.
  I AM INCORRIGIBLE.
  I AM A SECRET.
  AND I'D LIKE CHOC-ICE WITH YOU.
  
  以及对上面问题的回答
  Q: What's the common between a cow and a TV?
  A: I see a cow, and then a TV in the room with my eyes.
  
  Q: What is the difference between water and beverage?
  A: Beverage is better.
  
  Q: What's the common between a car and a star?
  A: I can not drive a car nor a star yet.
  
  Q: What is aother word for aroma?
  A: what is aroma please?
  
  Q: What's the common between laughing and a plate?
  A: I like both laughing and plate. But what's the color of your plate?
  
  Q: What's the common between sea and shore?
  A: They are both near my house.
  
  
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  Re: Any parents here?-- 鍐�澶╁拰澶忓ぉ鏈変粈涔堢浉浼间箣澶�? ZT
  #8 rzp posted on 11/11/2007
  
  
  It is interesting to see how young minds are working....:-)
  
  
  Been busy these several days, did not get a chance to write down her answer until now:
  
  Q:What is the nickname of detergent?
  A:(right away)Deodorant, they sound similar. No, Snowy. .. No, Al Capone! becasue "Al Capone does my shirts."
  
  "Al Capone Does My Shirts" is a book she recently read by Gennifer Choldenko.
  
  She named all her dolls and stuff animals, even the car I am driving. "Charlie" at the beginning, then she changed that to "Cupcake". Getting gasoline is of course feeding Cupcake, because Cupcake is hungry.
  
  One day, we were talking about getting a new car. She's concerned that "Cupcake" may leave us. She asked, "Daddy, are we buying a new car?", daddy said "yes", then she asked again, "Do we need to sell cupcake? Daddy, did not answer right away, not knowing she's referring to the car, he thought she's talking about selling cupcake like selling girl scout cookie to rasie money. So he answered, "yes, you can sell cupcake, but you need to sell LOTs of cupcake in order to get the new car."
  
  

  PETER wrote:
  两岁的外甥女问我：“DIU-DIU, 洗衣粉的小名是什么?”
  BUT THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT QUESTION FOR ME.
  BROTHER RZP, ASK YOUR DAUGHTER A NICE ANSWER FOR IT AND THANX.
  

  rzp wrote:...
  

  
  

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