RZP mm 要书单, 先上几本. 大部分作者的其他的书也值得一读. 可根据孩子的具体情况,选择阅读. 大家请加上你们的favorite parenting book list. 尤其是咖啡的爸爸们.
1. The Price of Privilege:
How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids
by Madeline Levine (Author)
2.The Irreducible Needs of Children:
What Every Child Must Have to Grow, Learn, and Flourish (Paperback)
by T. Berry Brazelton (Author),
3.Temperament Tools: Working With Your Child's Inborn Traits
by Helen Neville, Diane Clark Johnson, and Dave Garob
4.The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children (Paperback)
by Ross W. Greene
5.The Myth of Laziness [BARGAIN PRICE] (Paperback)
by Mel Levine
6. how to talk so teens will listen & listen so teens will talk
by adele Faber
- posted on 05/25/2008
响应草叶号召,上这本书,并不是关于小孩的--我也还没有读。
Adaptation to Life by George E. Vaillant
Between 1939 and 1942, one of America's leading universities recruited 268 of its healthiest and most promising undergraduates to participate in a revolutionary new study of the human life cycle. The originators of the program, which came to be known as the Grant Study, felt that medical research was too heavily weighted in the direction of disease, and their intent was to chart the ways in which a group of promising individuals coped with their lives over the course of many years.
Nearly forty years later, George E. Vaillant, director of the Study, took the measure of the Grant Study men. The result was the compelling, provocative classic, Adaptation to Life, which poses fundamental questions about the individual differences in confronting life's stresses. Why do some of us cope so well with the portion life offers us, while others, who have had similar advantages (or disadvantages), cope badly or not at all? Are there ways we can effectively alter those patterns of behavior that make us unhappy, unhealthy, and unwise?
George Vaillant discusses these and other questions in terms of a clearly defined scheme of "adaptive mechanisms" that are rated mature, neurotic, immature, or psychotic, and illustrates, with case histories, each method of coping.
- Re: 育儿育女书单(大人书)posted on 05/25/2008
太复杂了吧? 象我们这样一本都没看过的家长,恐怕都犯了渎职罪:)
干脆简化一下行不?育女照书养,育儿照猪养:)) - Re: 育儿育女书单(大人书)posted on 05/25/2008
育猪也要照书养 :-)
你还没走?
老瓦 wrote:
太复杂了吧? 象我们这样一本都没看过的家长,恐怕都犯了渎职罪:)
干脆简化一下行不?育女照书养,育儿照猪养:)) - Re: 育儿育女书单(大人书)posted on 05/25/2008
老瓦的孩子一定是不让人操心的, 要看书干吗?
老瓦 wrote:
太复杂了吧? 象我们这样一本都没看过的家长,恐怕都犯了渎职罪:)
干脆简化一下行不?育女照书养,育儿照猪养:)) - Re: 育儿育女书单(大人书)posted on 05/26/2008
我的两本书是:
The educated child -- A Parents's Guide by William J. Bennett
Some thoughts concerning education by John Locke (1632-1704)
前一本书是针对8年级以下的孩子的教育,一个同事介绍的,当时到处推荐,我的朋友大概都买过。第二本书是朋友从中国买的中译本。书很老了,有很多道理经过300年的检验,好像还是很适用。 - Re: 育儿育女书单(大人书)posted on 05/27/2008
我做一次搬运工.
看来咖啡的各位饱览群书,就不需要PARENTING HELP的书了. 也说明孩子们是不操心类型.
来自昆:
"The Mislabeled Child, Looking Beyond Behavior to Find the True Sources and Solutions for Children's Learning Challenges
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