每天最开心的时刻,就是下班回家,女儿从隐藏的角落里冲出来,给我一个big hug,把她抱起来,狠狠地亲一口,然后开始爱的宣言:
爸爸最喜欢谁?
ME!
谁最喜欢爸爸?
I !
女儿总是回答的清脆响亮。宣誓完毕,再疯上半个小时,我扮大黑狗,喘着粗气, 楼上楼下‘嗅‘出藏匿着的女儿。吃完饭,我总要检查女儿吃饱了没有,她就特意把腮帮子鼓起来,让我一边亲一下。
最近,女儿不太好好吃饭,也没兴趣让我检查吃饱了没有。今天早晨上班之前,看到女儿和太太并排躺在地毯上,吭哧吭哧地做仰卧起,让我有一种不祥的预感。晚上回家,女儿依旧big hug,然后伸出小食指,严肃地声明:daddy, I am a big girl now, you can not kiss me any more, only mommy can do that, sorry。说完,冲我一笑,我看到掉了的门牙才长了一半。
晚上胡思乱想睡不着,上网逛逛,一进咖啡店,居然有人今夜蓝调,真是心里唱曲儿嘴不疼, 不知愁滋味儿。还是看看老氓的每日警言吧,或许能解开咱思想上的疙瘩,果然一句跳入眼帘,
The first half of our lives is ruined by our parents, and the second half by our children.
回到床上,仔细咀嚼名言,I have been ruined, I have ruined, I am still being ruined, and I am still ruining….., 渐入梦乡。
- Re: 今夜失眠posted on 06/01/2008
The first half of our lives is ruined by our parents, and the second half by our children.
确实如此 - Re: 今夜失眠posted on 06/01/2008
LM 老矣!别难过,女儿会抹着你的秃头,给你一个大kiss的。
小曼才是不知愁滋味那 :-)
xiaoman wrote:
The first half of our lives is ruined by our parents, and the second half by our children.
确实如此 - Re: 今夜失眠posted on 06/01/2008
xiaoman wrote:
The first half of our lives is ruined by our parents, and the second half by our children.
确实如此
The other way around, we ruined out parents' lives in the first half of our lives, and our children's in the second half. - posted on 06/01/2008
I found LM a sharp observer and a low-key but able articulator of subtleties of life on many occasions.
This time he says something that's been in my heart for many years. When I found one day that my daughter was suddenly too old and a little awkward on my part to hug and kiss I felt and had the same sadness and regret: I had not kissed and hugged her enough!
The father-daughter emotional bond is almost mysterious!
Fathers who have daughters heed this, seize the moment and don't spare your affections!
But of course they are never too old for us to dole out our affections. - Re: 今夜失眠posted on 06/01/2008
I have been missing the day" Can I have one more story" before Bedtime. Now, It is impossible I can even be allowed to read my own book with him in his room before bedtime while he is reading his book, not to mention reading a story to him. However, I make it a rule, I need to hug every day after we all come home. As long as not in front of his friends, he is so far willing to follow this rule.
- posted on 06/02/2008
有了老氓的称赞,心里好受了许多。 ;)
女儿根本还是个小小孩儿,掉的牙都没长齐,有时晚上做恶梦,还会跑到我的卧房,愣装小大人,还说自己太胖了,要节食减肥。
我从来都是教育孩子正确的价值观的,比如心灵美,她的那些想法当然都来自village,对,我blame village,都是village的错。 :)
touche wrote:
I found LM a sharp observer and a low-key but able articulator of subtleties of life on many occasions.
This time he says something that's been in my heart for many years. When I found one day that my daughter was suddenly too old and a little awkward on my part to hug and kiss I felt and had the same sadness and regret: I had not kissed and hugged her enough!
The father-daughter emotional bond is almost mysterious!
Fathers who have daughters heed this, seize the moment and don't spare your affections!
But of course they are never too old for us to dole out our affections. - Re: 今夜失眠posted on 06/02/2008
哎,女孩子爱漂亮是天性 :-)
LM wrote:,
有了老氓的称赞,心里好受了许多。 ;)
女儿根本还是个小小孩儿,掉的牙都没长齐,有时晚上做恶梦,还会跑到我的卧房,愣装小大人,还说自己太胖了,要节食减肥。
我从来都是教育孩子正确的价值观的,比如心灵美,她的那些想法当然都来自village,对,我blame village,都是village的错。 :)
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