同性恋的问题
1。
看了一个有三个故事的电影,If these walls could talk. 反映同性恋在美国不同年代的情况。第一个,一对老妇人同居。A突然死掉了. B 守在医院却不能见A最后一面,因为她不是亲属。所有后事只能由A的亲戚来处理。亲戚多少年不来往,是A的侄子侄媳妇。来了以后发现房屋在A名下,但是B也分担过房屋还贷。B希望继续住在这个两个人共同生活了50年的房子里,可是侄媳妇坚持卖掉。所幸侄子还说会适当补偿B。电影没有结局,令人猜测。假如房子买出高价,不知道那个侄子是跟B分享升值后的还是仅仅是退还B投入的钱。
看了这个电影,理解为什么同性恋人要结婚。他们需要保护自己的权益, 比如作为配偶的继承权。
2。第二个故事是teenager 里的同性恋,其中有两个女孩子make out 的镜头。
产生一个问题:如果你的女儿是同性恋跟另外一个女孩上床了,你会认为她 lost her virginity? 在中国的时候,如果你的女儿的同性朋友来家里玩,在家里住一晚上(条件所限,一定是同床了,而且那个时候小女孩同被窝也不足为奇),你大概不会往别处想。现在呢?
3。 第三个故事主角之一是Ellen (?), 就是几年前在媒体上公开承认自己是同性恋的那个演员。很喜欢她演的电视剧和talkshow。
- Re: 关于同性恋 about gayposted on 07/22/2009
老方写的这三个case都是女同,那就应该是lesbian,不是gay吧。
顺便想起个加拿大的gay朋友,partner是个西藏人,这一对跟另一对lesbian通过人工授精的方法生了一个儿子,这个儿子就有两个爸爸两个妈妈,很开心的。有一次聊起中国的男女比例失调问题,据调查眼下中国男孩子比女孩子多10-20%,这多出来的部分以后岂不是要打光棍?人开玩笑说,通过gay就解决了。 - Re: 关于同性恋 about gayposted on 07/22/2009
1. CIVIL UNION可以解决这问题, 不一定要MARRIAGE.
2. 女同性恋和男同不一样. 女性无须插入也可导致AROUSAL/OGASM.
fanghuzhai wrote: - Re: 关于同性恋 about gayposted on 07/22/2009
夹缝 wrote:
1. CIVIL UNION可以解决这问题, 不一定要MARRIAGE.
2. 女同性恋和男同不一样. 女性无须插入也可导致AROUSAL.
1. 遗嘱也照样可以解决问题。
2. 那俺就奇怪了,有的A片里,两个女同性恋做那事时也经常使用一个“那玩意儿”,那是为什么?不是“无须插入也可导致AROUSAL”吗? - Re: 关于同性恋 about gayposted on 07/22/2009
DON'T U THINK IT COULD BE A MESS?
雪 wrote:这个儿子就有两个爸爸两个妈妈,很开心的。 - Re: 关于同性恋 about gayposted on 07/22/2009
I did ask him. He said his son never mixed up, and learned to understand and tolerate people's difference even better than those brought up in single parent family which he criticized i had wrongly labelled as "normal family".
夹缝 wrote:
DON'T U THINK IT COULD BE A MESS?
雪 wrote:这个儿子就有两个爸爸两个妈妈,很开心的。 - posted on 07/23/2009
I just don't understand what their legal (marital) status are . A family of 4 parents? Whom does the boy belong to? What does the canadian law say about this?
As long as they all are homosexual people, why did they want people of opposite gender to build a family like this?
etc, etc,...?
Don't take me wrong. I have seen a lot of gay(lesbian) couples. All of them were just family of 2 parents (in spite of their sexual oritentions; married or not) instead of 4. That's basically why my questions came.
雪 wrote:
I did ask him. He said his son never mixed up, and learned to understand and tolerate people's difference even better than those brought up in single parent family which he criticized i had wrongly labelled as "normal family". - posted on 07/23/2009
我只知道他跟西藏男友拍拖很多年,一直想把男友办过来,直到近几年加拿大承认了同性恋的法律关系,他才把男友移民到加拿大来着。这四个爹妈的事情,可能只是两家人彼此愿意,那孩子主要还是在lesbian家里养着,在montreal,他们住在温哥华,每年要过去看几次。他倒没有对正常家庭有啥偏见,只是反对我说同性恋家庭是不正常的。
夹缝 wrote:
I just don't understand what their legal (marital) status are . A family of 4 parents? Whom does the boy belong to? What does the canadian law say about this?
As long as they all are homosexual people, why did they want people of opposite gender to build a family like this?
etc, etc,...?
Don't take me wrong. I have seen a lot of gay(lesbian) couples. All of them were just family of 2 parents (in spite of their sexual oritentions; married or not) instead of 4. That's basically why my questions came.
雪 wrote:
I did ask him. He said his son never mixed up, and learned to understand and tolerate people's difference even better than those brought up in single parent family which he criticized i had wrongly labelled as "normal family".
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