土干:成功与失败
其实,存在就好了,不必谈成功与失败。可是,家长对子女的期待,常常让我感到
沉重。我是不是对不起儿子?是不是没有提供他足够的教育投资?在我周围,所谓
成功的中国人(学者),有几个是教育投资出来的?可以统计一下,农民的后代远
远多于书香后代。于是,我就对我儿子放鸭子了,但有两点:一,我不给他想要的
东西;二,我逼他说中文,他幼小的时候,他不说中文,就没吃没喝,我就不理他。
平时我也观察我周围的成功人士,成功有成功的道理,不在于是否博学,而在于一
种逻辑思路,所谓以小看大。一个才华横溢的人,瞧不起别人,那么他的事业只能
低于他的期望值。一个注重小节的人,他所能到达的水平也许远远超过他的设想。
我的老板恐怕没想过他的成功,但他很顺利的。他细心。比如,我们一起做试验,
要在两个试验室间行走。两间实验室由两条路连接,一条路很短,但要开四道门,
一条路很长,但不用开任何门。我总走那条短路,而老板走那条长路。他说,被门
撞倒比在平坦的道路上摔一跤的机率大得多。
还有个年轻的女士,科研界冉起的新星。一次,天热,热得无法工作思考,我只能
坐着,等着下班时间。她就有办法,她每半小时去低温培养室(4度)站两分钟,
降低表皮温度,再回办公室工作。我怎么就想不到呢?
还有一个人,IT工作人员让他帮助我学会使用MAC电脑中的一个软件。他来了,
他没有使用过我的电脑,需要上下寻找机关。他就跪在地上或爬在地上,温柔仔细
地钻在桌子下面前后左右查看。我以为他是个工人,没活干,好容易有个差事,所
以干得心欢呢。他在我的电脑上鼓捣了两个小时,搞清操作步骤。后来,我跟别人
提到他,才知道,他是我们研究所的大亨,他领导的课题组,每年研究经费超过佰
万英镑。
过去可以有人精通几门学科,现在科学精细繁杂,合作的重要性就显出来了。有人
愿意同你聊天和为你工作,就是你的成功。
- Re: 土干:成功与失败posted on 11/24/2009
其分也,成也;其成也,毁也。凡物无成与毁,复通为一。唯达者知通为一,为是不用
而寓诸庸。庸也者,用也;用也者,通也;通也者,得也;适得而几矣。 - posted on 11/25/2009
一个注重小节的人,他所能到达的水平也许远远超过他的设想.
Devil in the details
A house of cards
The supple heart
Is not a place to dwell
Now you have your cake
Don't hesitate
Come on and just do it
Come on, just do it
Put it in your mouth
There is only now
Tomorrow has to wait
But know there's no backing out
This is gonna be reality
You can never dream it down
I have no way of telling the two apart
Well, I made amends
In the general sense
But the devil's in the details
And I know the cost
And I wanna stop
But I can't do it
I just can't do it
There was love I meant
There were accidents
So tell me which is which
Because I just can't work it out
But for memory and clarity
We had better write it down
I have no way of knowing the truth with time dissolves
I put the past into the ground
I saw the future as a cloud
If there's still time to turn around
I'm going to
It's just, one day I fell asleep
And all day, all night I dream
I am the first one I deceive
If I can make myself believe the rest is easy
- posted on 11/25/2009
Placebo的这首devil 唱得正好相反,He's a fucking pal of mine, He's gonna teach me wrong from right。 Placebo的歌词很棒的,音乐反倒没什么。
I've been wasting all my time
With the devil in the details
I got no energy to fight
He's a fucking pal of mine
That devil in the details
And he's fixing up to take a bite
I don't see the point in trying
I've got the devil in the details
He's gonna teach me wrong from right
That fucking pal of mine
The devil in the details
I'm gonna dance with him tonight
All of my wrongs, no more wicked ways
Come back to haunt me , come what may
For all of the songs I hope to write someday
Looks like the devil's here to stay
Let me take you for a ride
With the devil in the details
We'll kiss and tremble with delight
Everything is fine
With the devil in the details
We're gonna dance with him tonight
All of my wrongs, no more wicked ways
Come back to haunt me, come what may
For all of the songs I hope to write someday
Looks like the devil's here to stay
Looks like the devil's here to stay
Looks like the devil's here to stay
All of my wrongs, no more wicked ways
Come back to haunt me, come what may
For all of the songs I hope to write someday
Looks like the devil's here to stay
Looks like the devil's here to stay
Looks like the devil's here to stay
I've been wasting all my time
With the devil in the details
- Re: 土干:成功与失败posted on 11/25/2009
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