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LingHuChong wrote:
Unlike those plastic flowers that stays its look, 爱情 lives a life. It's born when it should be born, it grows when it should grow, it flowers when it should flower, it gets old when it should be old, it dies when it should die. You can't expect too much beyond that. You may look for a evergreen "爱情" which never evolves withyour life, but I would suspect it's a true 爱情.
For two creative minds love can last a long time, can live a lifetime, be it in a marriage or not, for the relationship is constantly renewing and refreshing, love's reborn everyday, the lovers grow together in their life. The sad thing is such a love rarely exists in reality, in this sense it IS fragile.
But then, you got a life to live, so live it, be happy. If love only brings your sadness, torment, or a sense of being unfulfilled, leave it. It's better being alone. (I am talking to those who belive love begets sufferings)
adagio