我和聊天室
方壶斋
曾几何时,网络里出现了聊天室的功能。广大网友为之雀跃,积极上网聊天,交流思想。聊天室取代了过去传统的笔友功能,使得跨国交友变得迅捷。通过聊天室,也有不少的人喜结良缘,当然也有不少的人上当受骗。但是不管怎么说,聊天室里那个时候聊的,都是实在的内容,不管是真的还是假的,从话语上说都是认真的交流。骗人也得花言巧语才行。如果你聊天就是为聊而聊,那这种聊天方式一定不会令你失望。
我曾经有一段时间常常聊天。跟人说起来,别人常常难以置信:跟陌生人有什么可聊的? 其实跟远在天边的人聊天,继承的是业余无线电爱好者的传统:CQ,CQ,CQ。我小时候对业余无线电有兴趣,但是没有去发展,因为这牵涉到设备,还得学密电码。我没那么聪明,但是我很热衷于收听远地电台,包括业余无线电爱好者的通话。插队的时候,我在生产队发现一台带短波的收音机。我曾经用它收听美国之音,叽里咕噜地听不懂也听。后来叫村里的治保主任没收了。上大学以后,教室里有军用无线电通讯机。先是老式的,把收听无线电通话的功能取消了,只用于教学,可以听短波,目的是听美国之音和BBC,但是我们也偷着听港台广播,邓丽君的歌。后来来了一批新型的,保留了收听无线电通话的功能,有时就用来搜寻无线电通话。
我另一个爱好是交国际笔友。曾经通过爱尔兰的一个笔友组织跟很多人通过信。伦敦的笔友就有好几位。美国有几个。加州有过两个,一个非常胖,给我寄来一张骑在马上的照片,背景是加州乡下。那时候看了,觉得加州乡下很土。还有一个加州的,给我寄来的照片一打开吓我一跳:一个美眉穿着黑色的钩花内衣裤和吊带丝袜正面对着镜头,金鸡独立。这些照片我还有,真想上载到网上登个寻人启事,看看这些人如今怎么样了,就怕让她们老公看见。
国际笔友很费钱。后来渐渐就放弃通信了。现在我还很留恋那段时光,因为每个笔友的来信都是很认真地写的。伦敦一个还曾一个劲动员我去英国。但是她的故事让我害怕。她说她跟一个阿拉伯人结婚了,结果并不顺利,曾经陷入麻烦,被那个人骚扰,好不容易才理顺了。
网上聊天出来以后,跨国交流非常方便,基本上不用学什么就可以用。坐在电脑前轻轻动几下手指头,就可以跟远在天边的人聊天,感觉真是妙极了。有一种聊天软件,名字就是ICQ, 意思就是I seek you,让人联想到无线电通话。无线电爱好者的联络,一般仅仅限于问问对方天气情况,信号清晰度,而聊天室则可以天南地北无所不谈。
我最早聊天是用ICQ。ICQ有个找朋友的功能,可以根据你的要求搜索其他ICQ的成员。这个功能现在的MSN和Yahoo Messenger 好像都没有。使用ICQ那段时间,我有几个固定的聊友,都是美加的老外,因为中国人用得很少。那时候我在念书。毕业以后很多年没有再接触ICQ。最近在一个公共电脑上发现有这个软件,居然能够马上想起来我的 user id 号码和密码。多少年了,居然还管用。现在ICQ的网站已经发展得很可观了。到那里一看,大有海外游子回国观光的沧海桑田之感,又亲切又陌生。
后来之所以疏远了ICQ,是因为那个时候ICQ 要下载聊天器,而我很久没有私人电脑。于是转而使用Yahoo的网上聊天室。后来又发现一些国内的聊天室,如新浪的聊天室和163的聊天室,可以跟国内的人聊天,可以使用中文,也是很快意的事情。
不久,在美国这边,这两个中文的聊天室都不好用了。中国的网络技术发展很快,原来不需要下载的插件什么的现在也需要下载才能聊天了。此外,一些跳出来的窗口的汉字都不能显示,全都是问号。这也让我失去了对这些中文聊天网的兴趣。
国内现在很多人用QQ。我试着在手提上下载了QQ,结果搞得我电脑不好使了,于是删掉。
本来对聊天也不是很感兴趣了,但是由于生活环境所迫,有的时候还免不了去一下。现在如果去,也就是去Yahoo的聊天室,因为比较方便。
但是去了之后发现,Yahoo的聊天室基本上被一帮到处拉客的数码妓当成拉客的场所了。特别是当你使用摄像头的时候。这些人会主动跟你私聊,但是并不多言,只是给你一个网址。这个网址就是一个卖色不卖淫的地方。这些数码妓利用摄像头在客户面前骚首弄姿。那些地方象 Costco 一样,有免费品尝,可以在一定的时间里让你一览春色,当然,免费品尝的虽然穿得不多,但还只是PG 级。如果你想看X级,就得付钱成为会员。不过,单单那些色情网站的宣传照片就已经很儿童不宜了。所以家里有小孩子的人,聊天的时候如果遇到这种情况,轻易不要打开那些网址。
现如今在yahoo聊天室,摄像头就意味着黄色。你把摄像头一打开,就好像是在向全世界宣布,你是一个色迷,在等待另外一个色迷的到来。即便你不是,别人也以为你是,所以来找你的都要落实到色情上。那些使用摄像头的男人,大多是有暴露癖的,找到你就说:“想不想看我秀一下?”。女人则不用说了,就是在给自己拉生意,一般都是说:“请访问我的网站 http://www 等等等等。” Yahoo 聊天室有很多的分类,但是即使是严肃话题的地方也很少看到什么严肃的讨论,却常常会时不时遇到斜刺里冲出来的数码妓。
还有一种女人不是做数码妓的,而是碰运气蒙骗好心人给她们寄钱的。这些人大都在南洋的某个国家。她们没事呆在网吧里,那里的电脑都有摄像头。看到你用摄像头了就来找你。谈不了两三句就说自己有什么困难请你帮忙。当然这些人也分三六九等。有的很直接,有的则很委婉,有的你跟她说明了你不会给她寄钱,也不会马上就甩了你,而是还能跟你聊聊别的。我曾经碰到一个女人,说自己在上大学,学费有困难。 还有一个,人长得不错,每次来网吧都带着女儿。女儿也漂亮可爱。没聊上多久,女人就说喜欢我,想跟我见面,让我到她们国去。还甭说,还真有那么点诱惑力。女人看样子四十岁不到,慈眉善目,贤妻良母的样子。如果是在本地,没准我真地要去一探虎穴。后来她委婉地说自己有什么困难,问我能不能帮她,全让我打岔打过去了。
聊天室变成色情和坑蒙拐骗的地方,的确是一件很令人扫兴的事情。特别是看到漂亮的女人在那里骗,更是让人唏嘘。但是社会就是如此。聊天室比起社会来,可能还安全一点,至少人家够不着你, 而且你也可以用马甲作掩体。不过,访问不良网站,没准会让你的良心大大地坏了地。看官如果要试的话, 可要自负其责呦。
2007-6-29
- Re: 聊天室是个大妓院 chatroom is a whorehouseposted on 06/28/2007
老方啊,还是在咖啡里聊吧 :-) - Re: 聊天室是个大妓院 chatroom is a whorehouseposted on 06/28/2007
就是,这里多好啊! - Re: 聊天室是个大妓院 chatroom is a whorehouseposted on 06/28/2007
没错没错,玛雅咖啡好,来这里聊吧。:) - Re: 聊天室是个大妓院 chatroom is a whorehouseposted on 06/28/2007
果真有这样的好事? 老方只管偷着乐,咋不老早就分享呢?有段时间迷过聊天,碧聊那个英文ECR, 音频功能齐全,可后来就演变成全世界串联的卡拉OK了。幸好当时还没有视频,否则我就乐不思蜀了:)
- posted on 07/04/2007
这是跟一个在我的空间上出现的骗子的聊天记录:
mpsc: hi
juliey_004: hello
mpsc: happy 4th of july
juliey_004: u too
juliey_004: how are u doing
mpsc: fine, u?
juliey_004: am great
juliey_004: well where havbe u been to b4
mpsc: at work
juliey_004: Oh where are u know
juliey_004: and how was ur work today ?
mpsc: in the computer room of a school
mpsc00: work is fine. how is your business?
juliey04: Businbess going on fine ehre
mpsc00: what business is it?
juliey_004: where is ur pics ?
mpsc00: did u receive it?
juliey_004: no i dont ?
mpsc00: in your mail box?
juliey_004: did u sent it
mpsc00: yes. also go to myspace.com, I uploaded several pics
juliey_004: ok
juliey_004: i want to check my mail okay
mpsc00: sure
juliey_004: Are u still there ....
mpsc00: yes, did u see my pics?
juliey_004: or are u bussy with some one there?
mpsc00: no, waiting for u
juliey_004: tell me baby are u chating with another girl there
juliey_004: I dont want to be hurt
mpsc00: now, no
mpsc00: I am writing exercises
juliey_004: oh okay
juliey_004: s tell me how have u been doing at work today ?
mpsc00: i taught five classes today
mpsc00: but was not tired
juliey_004: good
juliey_004: and why dont u mail me last day
mpsc00: i mailed u a picture
juliey_004: i looked for u online may be we could chat but u are not there
mpsc00: and the email did not bounce back, so you must have got it
juliey_004: yea i got the pic
juliey_004: but if u really care for me and have me in mind u should have mailed me as well
juliey_004: i mean letter
mpsc00: you mean by surface letter?
juliey_004: yes
juliey_004: Can u email me some pics more ?
mpsc00: but you said you did not receive my picture
juliey_004: I just cjeck my mail know and see it
mpsc00: you should send me an email first and I add you to my address book
mpsc00: what is your mail address?
juliey_004: juliey_004
mpsc00: I know this, but you want me to send you a surface mail by post office
juliey_004: Oh yea
juliey_004: but i dont have the address now with me
juliey_004: think i will give u taht tomorow okay
mpsc00: ok, email me, but why do you want a post office mail?
juliey_004: cos that will show to me that u really love me and want me for r eal
mpsc00: I like to be your penpal
juliey_004: yea me too ...the first day i chated with u i know u are so honest and that wht i really care much about
mpsc00: but we can only be penpals, you know that
juliey_004: well yea i know
mpsc00: ok
juliey_004: and how do think like that
juliey_004: wht makes u think like that ?
mpsc00: because you are too young
juliey_004: well ...do u know that age is just a number
mpsc00: as I said, age gap may cause lots of problems
juliey_004: and by the w ay ...wht i really care mych about if i see that in any body ...no matter wht the age may be i will go for him
mpsc00: with cross-racial marriage, there can be more problems
mpsc00: cultural difference, ways of living etc
juliey_004: okay
juliey_004: see hon i was stranded today
mpsc00: why stranded?
juliey_004: I need soem lttle money to get some stuff
juliey_004: I have not get paid
mpsc00: u are doing business and you must have money
juliey_004: no i told u i work for a company here
mpsc00: i see
juliey_004: wht u see baby ?
juliey_004: cant u help me or wht ?
juliey_004: 8u stop talking ?
mpsc00: how much you need?
juliey_004: just 350
juliey_004: to get food stuff taht all
mpsc00: if you are working for a company, how come they cannot even pay you 350 dollars?
juliey_004: i just tld u aht i was not get paid yet
juliey_004: and i need little 350 to get food stuff till i was get paid
mpsc00: but it takes time to send money
juliey_004: i mean till i get my salary
juliey_004: no it does not
mpsc00: how much is your salary?
juliey_004: u can even send it online here
mpsc00: really how?
juliey_004: u will send it through western union
juliey_004: that is online money trnsfer
mpsc00: i never used west union
juliey_004: really
mpsc00: do not know how to use it
mpsc00: I only know how to send a check by mail
juliey_004: just go there they will tell u wht to do
mpsc00: i c
mpsc00: i need your account number to wire money
juliey_004: sorry i got rebooted
juliey_004: no u dont need that
mpsc00: how?
juliey_004: okay
juliey_004: go to the page
juliey_004: westernunion
mpsc00: ok
juliey_004: has it open
mpsc00: yes
juliey_004: have u see where u send money throgh?
mpsc00: y
juliey_004: has teh page open?
mpsc00: yes
juliey_004: and i ask if u see where u can send money throgh ?
mpsc00: yes
juliey_004: scrole down and click on trnsfer status
juliey_004: have u done that ?
mpsc00: no i did not see that
juliey_004: scrole down u will see it
mpsc00: i did and saw nothing
juliey_004: you have to send it wit a credit card
mpsc00: i do not have
mpsc_00: I never use credid card. that is a Chinese habit
juliey_004: right now that u are there select your residence country usa
mpsc00: I said I have no credit card
mpsc00: how about I send you a check by post office?
juliey_004: no i cant get it cash here
juliey_004: well wht ur address in us there ?
mpsc00: then I cannot help you
mpsc00: I will keep you in mind in my prays
mpsc00: The computer room is closing. I have to logg off
今天把“我的空间”的马甲彻底换了,进行了变性手术,拉皮,美容, 给自己披了一张画皮。估计不会有美女骚扰了。就是不知道会不会招徕大老爷们给钱。
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