如果这条法律通过,各位不要首先激动,我想咖啡店里最大的受益者应该是风子。风兄,到时候你把了结官司后的剩男剩女,一定以第一优先介绍给咖啡,不愁老板娘最操心的点击数不暴涨。
BERLIN (Reuters) - Bavaria's most glamorous politician -- a flame-haired motorcyclist who helped bring down state premier Edmund Stoiber -- has shocked the Catholic state in Germany by suggesting marriage should last just 7 years.
Gabriele Pauli, who poses on her web site in motorcycle leathers, is standing for the leadership of Bavaria's Christian Social Union (CSU) -- sister party of Chancellor Angela Merkel's conservative Christian Democrats (CDU) -- in a vote next week.
She told reporters at the launch of her campaign manifesto on Wednesday she wanted marriage to expire after seven years and accused the CSU, which promotes traditional family values, of nurturing ideals of marriage which are wide of the mark.
"The basic approach is wrong ... many marriages last just because people believe they are safe," she told reporters. "My suggestion is that marriages expire after seven years."
After that time, couples should either agree to extend their marriage or it should be automatically dissolved, she said.
Fifty-year-old Pauli, twice divorced, is a maverick intent on shaking up her male-dominated and mainly Catholic party which has dominated Bavarian politics since World War Two.
"This is about bringing ideas into the CSU and starting a discussion," she told German television on Thursday after she had unleashed a wave of criticism from other politicians.
Former foe Stoiber said she did not belong in the CSU and European lawmaker Ingo Freidrich dismissed her views.
"She is diametrically contradicting our Christian, ethical values," Freidrich said.
Peter Ramsauer, head of the CSU in Germany's parliament, compared Pauli's ideas to "the dirt under your fingernails".
Pauli, who attracted attention earlier this year when she posed for a magazine wearing long black latex gloves, was at the centre of a snooping scandal which eventually led to Stoiber, Bavarian premier for 14 years, saying he would stand down early.
She said his office tried to obtain details about lovers and alcohol consumption to use against her.
The CSU will elect Stoiber's successor as party head at a conference next week. He will be replaced as state premier in early October.
Viewed as a party rebel, Pauli stands almost no chance of winning next week's vote. The contest has been fought mainly between Bavarian state economy minister Erwin Huber and German Consumer Minister Horst Seehofer.
The popularity of Seehofer, a 58-year-old married father of three, has suffered from the disclosure that he had been having an affair with a younger woman who recently had his baby.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070921/od_uk_nm/oukoe_uk_germany_politics_marriage_2
- Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/24/2007
这个主意不像乍听上去那么荒唐。每七年可以重续。给双方很好的反省机会。免得过日子像上了传送带。
不过有一个后果是双方在几年后就开始物色候选人以增加自己的谈判优势。 - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/24/2007
法律对婚姻的约束似乎更着眼于婚姻制度跟社会福利保障的相应相成,而不是道德伦理的约束.
一个德国朋友说,他曾经在路上跟一个流浪汉聊天.发现他跟自己一样有学位,曾经有不错的工作.他选择做流浪汉因为他工作所得被法律规定要几乎全部用来抚养他离异的妻子和三个孩子.若没有工作,他便不用抚养他们.不仅妻孩有国家贫困补助,自己也有国家贫困补助.
朋友的妻子选择不上班,因为说上班所得大部分都用来缴税.(大概用去补助那些没有了前夫抚养的母子和懒汉了).
关於德国的社会福利保障状况,燃丁应该有发言权. - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/24/2007
呵呵,七年自动解约,这结婚还有啥好处啊?要是志在必婚呢,我看得有把婚姻作为第一职业的marriageaholic精神,那大学教授六七年里努一把力也拿到tenure了呀。要不,自动解约的婚姻之外再设立一个tenure-track的吧。:) - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/24/2007
today's news, ladies in the states begin to fight in court in order to deny the estranged huby the 50 % share of household worth. - posted on 09/26/2007
这 法 案 的 本 质 是 歧 视 妇 女 的。 因 为 女 子 再 婚 筹 码 与 时 俱 退, 不 及 男 子。 所 以 如 此 案 成 法 将 会 造 成 大 量 无 助 弃 妇。 她 们 将 组 成“ 黄 色 娘 子 军” 而 造 反, 最 终 影 响 男 子 享 受 七 年 一 次 的 新 婚。
此 外, 由 于 适 婚 年 龄 的 女 子 有 限, 并 将 成 为从18 至80 年 男 子 的 猎 求 对 象, 社 会 将 涌 现 父 子 同 求 一 女, 甚 至 父 求 女, 子 求 母 等 乱 伦 现 象。 紊 乱 纲 常。
而 且 德 国 会 因 此 出 现 许 多 单 亲 甚 至 无 亲 儿 童, 他 们 生 活 痛 苦, 会 成 为 基 地 组 织 的 发 展 对 象, 对 全 球 和 平 选 成 威 胁。
最 后 七 年 一 次 不 适 合“ 要 想 发, 不 离 八” 或“ 好 事 成 双”的 中 国 传 统 国 情。,也 不 适 合 美 国 每 四 年 易 政 的 现 代 高 节 奏 思 维。
有 鉴 于 此, 建 议 改 七 年 为 两 年, 暂 时 通 过 试 行。
- Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/27/2007
天下没有不散的宴席,可这宴席散得也太快了点儿。不合适的两个人怎么捏和也不能粘一块儿。 - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/28/2007
七年太久.
女人的青春都已经耗进去. 再走出来,需要付出多么大代价. 孩子,家,青春,财产. 和太多遗憾. 要断早断,不断就遗憾终生. 七年太久.
两年最好. 最起码两年内女人的耗费不那么大. 男人的本色也基本可以看清楚. 早断早干净.
七年实在太久. 人生所有烙印在七年内都给烙上了. 再想解脱, 难! - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/28/2007
我已尝到两难的痛苦
都是因为时间太久. 进退不得 - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/29/2007
Fengzi wrote:
有 鉴 于 此, 建 议 改 七 年 为 两 年, 暂 时 通 过 试 行。
风子这明显是替自己主动揽私活儿,七年缩减到两年,业务量暴涨三倍半,你到忙乎得快活,却增加了和谐社会安定团结的成本。
你的营业执照也两年来一个Renew咋样? - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 09/30/2007
That'd be great!! It'd be far much better than the current system requiring annual renewals. ^_*
WOA wrote:
Fengzi wrote:
你的营业执照也两年来一个Renew咋样? - Re: Glamorous politician wants law to allow 7-year itch (zt)posted on 10/01/2007
实际上不要一刀切天下。意愿结婚者应能选择婚期长度,从半小时到永恒,就像不同期限的房贷一样。改约要花钱,就像做refinance一样。交易成本的存在使婚约相对稳定。
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