／Snowbaby

雅姐，我还活着。 幸福了一把，又被很伤了一把.....然后还活着。

柔情似水永远易碎，伤情也伤柔，只有至刚才可至柔； 柔媚是风骨，并非娇作； 落地玻璃是碎了，但也平静了； 就如同你手心里的我，但愿是被捏碎的，而不是被摔碎的。

Thanks for researching, I found out happiness is simply -- just "drinking", sake plus ice is perfect, maybe we can drink together sometime ... hehe

笨笨，非常喜欢你文字里的风情和细腻和缠绵，沉缅在字句中的感觉无以言传.... 如果你不是“长发撩起”，我会因你的文字而爱上你:)

笨笨，路上扭得可好？可有把风月帖遗失？

The blue of jazz is coming from "careless", not "painful". Careless is kind of "post-painful" mood, if people can stand for pain and go through the whole pain, that he/she can be absolutely careless, because care is the source of pain.

玛雅，如笨笨所说，女人清醒时，就到咖啡店来聊聊， 如果实在头疼，就撒娇吧...寂寞的多是女人，但女人多并非真寂寞，只是缺少人陪罢了。如有说错，多有得罪。

My God, I never read poem, shame on myself for your question :) Thanks for enjoying my words, those are something directly from heart but not writing skill, just like what Julie Roberts said in "Notting Hill", 'this is just a girl standing in front of a boy, to ask for love' .... I am talking to my soul, and thanks for Maya to provide me a place to lay them down.

今晚的日子叫做思念 骄傲的心 折服于思念 象如风的絮语 象无脊的草 来，入我梦 牵我手 让我感受缠绵 不需要醒 你的日子，我的思念

玛雅，跟年轻的男孩子在一起特别驻颜，试试姐弟恋 ....

处男的味道？不尝也罢。小资什么感觉？就象穿夹脚高跟鞋。卫慧？现在，在网上叫床叫得好听的实在不多......何必与自己过不去， 还是象玛姐这样，典雅又通俗，知性而爽朗，才是女人中的精品。

男人坏的才可爱， 女人爱了才变坏； 不要让男人变得太坏才去爱， 不要让女人爱得太深才去坏； 坏男人说，“女人都一回事儿” ， 坏女人说，“男人就这么回事” ； 情深不知归处， 不知先去爱，还是先去坏； 流水情，落花意， 何必要爱，何必不坏。

Jazz的妙处在於，有心与无心之间，挑逗与保留之间，就象女人面对可意的男人。

Thanks Susan and Maya. I like the definition of Gender from Susan: Gender: the expectation of a society for men to behave like men and women to behave like women. As well as Maya’s idea about feminine : 女人味是男人的审美也是女人的审美，因为征服了男人的女人同时也获得同性的羡慕和嫉妒。 About gender, I would like to go further from Susan’s sentence. Now the point is what behavior style is “like men” from society expectation, and what’s “like women”? And is this expectation reasonable? I thi